A new survey released for Carers Week finds that more than three-quarters (76%) of people looking after an ill, frail or disabled loved one do not have a life outside of their caring role.
The results show that huge numbers of carers are left isolated and lonely, missing out on opportunities that the rest of the population takes for granted. 80% have been forced to give up leisure activities or from going out socially since becoming a carer.
The majority of those surveyed can no longer rely on relatives for support either, as these relationships have suffered as a result of caring – 75% say they have lost touch with family and friends.
Carers say they simply exist, are marginalised and invisible. Unable to socialise, to have romantic relationships, or even to consider having children, the impact on carers is emotional, mental, physical, and fiscal. Four out of every five carers say they’re worse off financially, while more than half (54%) say they’ve had to give up work.
Despite saving the UK economy £87 billion annually by relieving pressure on health and social services, carers are not being supported in the vital role they play for both their communities and society at large. Almost all carers questioned agreed a life of their own would be achievable if they received breaks, a decent income and were given support in times of crisis.
Carers Week celebrity ambassador, Arlene Philips OBE, world renowned choreographer and TV personality, best known for her role in BBC 1’s Strictly Come Dancing, has shared her personal experience of caring. Arlene Philips says:
"I helped to look after my father when he was suffering from Dementia, so I know what a strain it can be, both physically and emotionally. You can feel so alone and isolated. Several million carers look after a parent, child, partner or friend, with love and dedication. Many do not receive the support and recognition they deserve. I'm supporting Carers Week, and all that it's doing to make carers aware of the many organisations ready to care for carers."
David Praill, chief executive, Help the Hospices, says:
"Help the Hospices is delighted to be a partner in Carers Week 2010. There are more than half a million people caring for a friend or family member with a life-limiting or terminal illness. Hospices play a vital role in supporting these carers to be able to have ‘a life of their own’ both during the illness and in bereavement."
Carers Week is organised by seven national charities: Carers UK, Counsel and Care, Crossroads Care, Help the Hospices, Macmillan Cancer Support, Parkinson’s UK and The Princess Royal Trust for Carers. The week campaigns for greater recognition and support for the UK’s six million carers, and celebrates the contribution carers make to society.
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