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Supporting carers

When someone is diagnosed with a terminal illness or accesses palliative care, ask them who helps look after them at home. Talk to family members about their own needs.

Relationships

Many carers find it difficult to accept that they are now a carer. They may see this as the beginning of the 'final journey' of the person they are caring for. Do not force them to accept that they are a 'carer'.

Emphasise that their relationship with the cared for person is not being replaced. They are still a wife, husband, parent, child or friend. However, the balance of the relationship will change as they become responsible for someone else's wellbeing.

Concerns

The things people are most often concerned about when they first face the reality of becoming a carer are:

how they will manage
who they can turn to, especially if things go wrong at night or at the weekend
what happens next?
giving medications.

Reassure new carers that no question is too trivial. Anything that concerns them is reason enough to ask. Ask them to tell you what their practical worries are, and let them know where they can go to for help and advice.

Many areas of concern for carers are sensitive, such as money worries or problems at work. You can download and photocopy relevant sections from the Carers Pack to hand out to carers.

Young carers

Young carers under the age of 18 may need particular guidance. We have more information for professionals supporting young carers in this section of our website and have produced a Young Carers Guide.